I was motivated to come up with this write-up by the comments of the ladies on a thread I dropped yesterday. I was so amazed when about 95% of ladies claimed they were virgins.
The importance of virginity cannot be overemphasized any time any day and it's a thing everyone should endeavour to keep for reasons best known to you. The rate at which our ladies claim virgin these days is so alarming and i just shake my head in disdain when I see them use it as a leverage to show purity thereby making others feel intimidated
I personally believe virginity shouldn't be a showcase of holiness or a display of egoistic attitude. When you still have your virginity, it's for your own good and NOT for the benefit of the nation
When guys still have their virginity, hardly would their friends know because they will never show it off, rather they try to hide and pretend they are also BADOOs in order not to be ridiculed or laughed at. Guys you know that feeling when you claim you are a virgin in the midst of 50 guys.. Greatest height of bashing.. Hehehe
Note: Don't get this post twisted because this is NOT an attempt to urge those who still have theirs to give it out, so if your comprehension skill is poor pls kindly read all over as many times as possible or better still, ask someone with a better comprehension skill to explain it to you
Without wasting your time, let's get to business
Just take a deep breath and pls don't read hurriedly
Why Ladies Should Avoid Claiming They Are Virgins
1. It's Your Pride Which Other Will Not Benefit From
I was shocked when a lady on my previously created thread was just blabbing " IT'S MY PRIDE & I'M RESERVING IT FOR MY HUSBAND" I mean whose pride should it be ? My own pride ? Smh
In as much as your virginity is only for your own good, then why advertise it to the world because you want them to worship or adore you?
2. You Lose Your Respect
Personally, I love virgins so much and I would really like to have one for myself but my love for a lady head on diminishing return if she claims being a virgin on a public forum. Many ladies claim virgins just to show to people that they are sexually disciplined and pure
3. Your Friend Start Watching Your Movement
If you live in school hostel you should know what I'm talking about. Ladies in the hostel don't like when you pride yourself probably because you still have your virginity, that is, when they talk about se x you keep mute, when they talk about their boyfriends you keep mute because you want to show holiness. This trigger jealousy and they start watching your movement and the moment you are spotted playing a dirty game, they would mock you to the extent that you would feeling like packing out of the hostel.
4. It Shows You Are Immature
A mature lady doesn't announce her virginity, she rather keeps quiet. She talks and mingle with those who have lost theirs without discriminating., Only an immature lady would squeeze their like face as if she has yoyo bitters in their mouths the moment se x discussion comes up
5. When You Are In Rome You Do Like Romans
Just as the Bible has made us understand that you should sometimes do like sinners and mingle with them if you really to draw them to Christ. That is, when you are in the people who have lost theirs, it's even better to pretend you have also lost yours in order not to make them feel intimidated. . It was so disgusting a lady seek advice on what to do because a guy dumped her after getting under her skirt, only for a lady to storm on the thread and started claiming she would never open her legs for any man. Isn't that annoying ?
6. You Would Be Tagged A Liar
My research has shown that the number of non-virgin definitely out weigh that one the vir gins ( I don't want you to believe this assertion). Why claim a virgin when you know that people would doubt it ? It's better you avoid saying it
7. People Might Not Hype You
Many ladies display their virginity status so as to make people see them as a different and rare creature. I'm sorry you might just be seen as that person who was fortunate due to lack of opportunity
8. Not everybody Is Obsessed With Virgins
The fact that you claim a virgin doesn't mean a guy would be gracing the floor. Virgin is not what some watch out for in choosing a life partner
9. You Are Tagged A Pretender
If you are not tagged a liar you are likely to be tagged a pretender so what's the essence of claiming a virgin when you know that people would call you a pretender. It's better to not to talk about it at all than claim it
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